Aug. 24, 2026

Ep 123: Remembering Hayden Paneteirre | #gotherbackpodcast

Ep 123: Remembering Hayden Paneteirre | #gotherbackpodcast
Ep 123: Remembering Hayden Paneteirre | #gotherbackpodcast
Got HER Back
Ep 123: Remembering Hayden Paneteirre | #gotherbackpodcast

Carrie is back from her birthday weekend and Meg has the receipts: a TikTok margarita built on Chick-fil-A lemonade and a whole bottle of coconut tequila (Meg paid for that one), a five pound catfish hauled out of the backyard pond, and the glorious return of Chili's skillet queso, because the petition worked, y'all.

Then Sunday morning happened. The girls woke up to the news that Hayden Panettiere had died at 36, five days shy of her birthday. Meg and Carrie get into the interview from a few months back that felt off, what Hollywood does to kids who grow up on set, the on again off again ex who did 45 days, and the 2018 decision to give up her parental rights that Carrie calls trauma stacked on trauma.

It turns personal when Carrie talks about her own family and the hard truth: that you cannot force anybody into help they aren't asking for. They land it somewhere softer with Nashville binge plans and kids who beg for shark movies and then refuse to sleep alone.

Come for the queso, stay for the conversation.

Chapters:

00:00 Happy Got HER Back Monday

00:30 The TikTok Margarita That Took Meg Down

01:30 Skillet Queso Is Back and We Take Credit

01:55 Five Pound Catfish, One Broken Nail

04:15 Waking Up to the Hayden Panettiere News

04:55 Child Stars and Hollywood's Playground

06:15 The 911 Call and What We Still Don't Know

07:00 The Ex, the Jail Time and the Trauma Bond

08:50 Agoraphobia, the Boat Story and Her Book

11:00 All That Money and Nobody to Manage It

13:30 Giving Up Her Parental Rights in 2018

15:15 Back to School and Carrie Turns 45

16:15 The Pattern Nobody Wants to Talk About

19:30 Who Thought That Interview Was a Good Idea?

20:30 Postpartum, Shame and the Snowball

21:00 You Can't Force Anybody to Get Help

22:00 The First Step and the Scarlet Letter

23:15 Nashville, Sharks and Scaredy Cat Kids

24:45 Thanks for Hanging With Us

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